One never knows how a cow will catch a hare:-)
This silly title is a literal translation of a Dutch proverb. It is my motto for networking and basically means that one cannot know how something unlikely eventually happens after all.
Every person has “luggage” you can’t see. Their “luggage” consists of what they know, what they have done, who they know, who they will meet in the future, what they are like etc. etc. This makes the cow and the hare thing possible. You never know who can help you to accomplish your goals. Or the other way around; how you can help others.
This morning I went to the launch of the new Dutch magazine Vrouw. (Vrouw = Woman.) On the website of The Netherlands’ largest newspaper women were invited to attend the breakfast launch that was hosted in the center of Amsterdam. I figured that all work makes me a dull girl and it was time to play. So I went thinking that if it was no good I could always go shopping.
As there was no host or hostess welcoming the guests I walked around, got some breakfast and sat down to read the magazine. In the meantime observing the other people, trying to figure out if they were a member of the editorial staff, or a woman just like me. After a couple of minutes I figured out that there was another category of people too. This group consisted of the people who wanted something from the editorial staff: media attention! And of course there were men. Lots of them. I didn’t really get why they were there, but they were there.
I got to talking to Floris from Masterflirt and one of the journalists joined us. Her eye fell on a magnificent painted leather organizer on the table next to us. She asked where she could get one as it was so beautiful. We all admired it and got caught up in the conversation on the magnificence of the organizer. The artist, told the journalist that in return for an interview she could have an organizer. And of course the journalist received the artist’s business card. The rest of our table didn’t. The same happened when a guy selling some type of expensive earthenware also wanted a free editorial. I am not particularly interested in earthenware, but I found it striking that these two people were so focused on who they thought to be interesting and of use, that they didn’t even pretend to be interested in others. For all they know I may have been The Netherlands’ most important buyer of organizers/earthenware or been married to the most important buyer, whatever! Take your pickJ.
I saw this launch through other eyes. Everyone was looking for interesting persons letting their own prejudices determine who is interesting and who is not. I got the idea that the editorial staff was being wooed by people looking for free editorials and the potential reader was being left to her own device. Not very hospitable and certainly not very customer led.
Of course I would have liked to link to the spectacular painted leather organizer or the wonderful earthenware, but those two cows only caught one hare. Not this one! This hare was caught by a multilevel marketing cow. MLM is not my cup of tea, but I had an interesting conversation with an interesting man and who knows where it will lead. His “luggage” with met and yet to meet people is enormous. And who knows how we can help eachother!